Usually Hubby and I go to parties where people are well-vetted, but last night I was super horny and we tried something different.

I connected with a really hot guy on Feeld who was in town for the weekend, and we met him at his hotel.

We had a drink in the bar together, smoked a joint outside, and then Hubby and I went up to his hotel room so the two of them could spitroast me.

During our "boundaries talk," we made it clear that he needed to use a condom. He seemed reluctant but agreed.

But at one point, he took off the condom and started rubbing his tip up and down my pussy lips, saying he "needed it to get hard."

What the fuck? He didn't insert it, but there are still plenty of STIs that can be contracted that way. Why the hell would he think that was OK?

Has that happened to you, and would you have shut things down?