Hello, me and the gf both 29 been together for 5 years and just moved to new city. Before we started to date I have had a three way before both mff with a ex, and a mfm for a old college friend (which was a surprise for his gf). It was a big hit for her! But my current gf has never done anything like it before other than hooking up with a female in her college days. I wanna surprise her with a mfm. We have talked about it so many times both mfm, mff, even couple swap but always in the heat of the moment kinda thing and she wants it, but not in the heat she is hesitant. Anyone have any input other then just being up front with her! Cause if it’s something planned it will be a turn off for her! So I wanted people opinion on if they have had a similar situation and just surprised their significant other with another penis and the heat of the moment takes over!