I need some answers. Me and my bf had agreed on swinging this past year. We've had 1 encounter and have an upcoming one. But because for me to be comfortable cause I'm fairly new to this and he's not. I asked for us to only meet up with couples only. No solo play no singular meetups. My bf agreed and said that's totally fine he understands and while he would want solo play he won't do it out of respect for our relationship. Now he's months later asking for solo play because he's frustrated and wants it. But he knows I'm not comfortable really with it cause he broke my trust multiple times with solo play behind my back. So he's bringing this to the table and telling me that's what he wants. When a month ago we mutually agreed on couples only. Am I the only one that thinks this is selfish of him?