My wife and I have been exploring opening up our marriage. I think we both want to engage in full swinging but have not yet made that leap. Her fear is being outed.

She has had a few encounters with other men at my encouragement. We both really liked the experience although her only downside is that she feels a little ‘bad’ afterwards, like she did something wrong. I always assure her everything is fine and she moves on quite quickly.

I have not had any experiences to date. Which is totally ok with me, but she brought up to me that she would like me to start “sexting” as a starter and share it with her.

Is this a path towards swinging in general? Also I know how hard it is for guys to find a “sexting” partner, lol beautiful women are much easier to get a man’s attention! I don’t want her to think I’ve dropped the ball.