Husband (50) and I (45) have been married for 20 years. Been on-again-off-again open for the entire relationship. We recently met some new couples that we really like. We met one couple in particular and I have been hooking up with him one-on-one, which is completely new for me and for us as a couple. I’m head over heels for him. I miss him when we aren’t together. I want to see him constantly. He gives me butterflies in my stomach. I love my husband but I worry that I’m falling for the new guy, and I don’t want it to stop. Anyone else been here? I know I should probably just make a break but I don’t know how I will feel about my husband afterwards. Part of non monogamy is that you get to experience so much outside of your marriage. But… I’m so confused and upside down. I haven’t had feelings like this in so long. I feel both wonderful and horrible all at once.
How would you feel if your husband was falling for another woman the way you are for this guy?
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