I've read one or two stories recently about MFM 'threesomes gone wrong', wherein a couple bring a third man into their sex life and the man in the couple ends up effectively getting sidelined in the act (almost akin to being unintentionally cucked, etc). These scenarios seem to be breeding grounds for the worst kinds of emasculating insecurities, watching yourself get one-upped by this other man (hell I get second hand insecurity reading those stories) so I am wondering;
How do swingers handle this kind of insecurity?
It always comes back to you two as a couple. If you are healthy enough to discuss an MFM, for you to express you are not interested in being cucked and do not want to be sideline, and she respects you as a partner enough to not allow that— you’ll be fine.
If you don’t have that level of respect and communication it’ll go poorly.
As a male, I think the minute you decide on a MFM, you should set realistic expectations and know that it may very well turn into a cuckold situation and that should be ok. Even if you are not into cuckolding, you should be ok with it before deciding on a MFM. Realistically, all male 3sms have at least a few minutes of cuckoldness throughout the play 😅
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