We are a couple, female late 40's, and male mid 50's, that are about to start diving into the deep end of the pool when it comes to swinging. Planning to attend a local club, that is knows nationwide, but here is my question. How friendly the swinger community is, for bicurious men? We have fantasies, and they require a men that would be ok with being with both of us. We want to bring them to fruition, and I would rather not pay for that experience (though, I will if we can't find anybody). I am bicurious too, but I don't think that is a problem at all. Also, my husband doesn't know if he wants to fuck other woman, it's hard for him to finish, and I know how to make him get there. He is well endowed, but he wants to absorb the experience of seeing me enjoying myself. We have talked about it, and he wants it to happen, looking forward to it, but wonder if that is the norm? I look on the apps and websites, and, TBH, there is no men interested in playing with both parts. Plenty of men want to fuck me at the same time as him, but when I mention bi play, the answer is always, no, I am not gay...