Me 21M, her 24F Basically I'm having very mixed feelings of jealousy when I think about all of this stuff. I actually started this discussion and expressed interest in threesomes, willing to try both ways but concerned about jealousy with MMF.

She isn't at all pushing me into any of this, but she mentioned that she isn't concerned about jealousy because she's interested in swinging, which she defined as couple swapping, away from each other. So that led me to look up this subreddit and I've gotta say, this is all very scary to me. I've learned that threesomes seem to fall under the swinging category, im just very intimidated by all of this.

I find MMF dynamics hot in porn, but I literally started crying when reading some experiences on this subreddit, just of people describing how hot it was to watch their wife get fucked by another man.

How do you get comfortable with that? Is the jealousy meant to be hot? Is there not supposed to be jealousy? What's the proper way to ease ourselves into doing all of this?

I want to take it slow, and i don't want to prevent her from exploring her fantasies. I want to get comfortable enough to try this out at least once, just so that her and I can say we did it as a bucket list thing. It's all still hot to me too, but it's way more terrifying than it is hot, and I'd like that to change.