So, my girlfriend of 3 years and myself are going to our first swingers club in a few weeks. She is bisexual and was previously married to a woman. I have been very straight, with much curiosity over the years. My previous marriage was very vanilla and she shot down any and all thoughts of exploring anything further. I am so excited and nervous all at the same time. She is also very excited, but for different reasons.

We have thoughts of trying stuff with woman and men for both parties, but I don’t know what to expect? What if I try something and find out I don’t really like it at all? I think I am okay with watching her with another man and I am okay with the thought of me trying stuff with another man, but don’t want to upset/offend anyone if I am not.

We are in the Western PA/ Eastern OH area and am always looking to talk to new people about learning new things and getting advice from people in the community. I appreciate any and all comments! Thanks!