How about Hotwives or Stag/Vixen? They don’t want to be humiliated but rather just enjoy watching their wives. His assumption is that if a couple doesn’t want a SM to join it must because of insecurity

It certainly comes off as whining. If a couple doesn’t want a SM, it must be from some insecurity rather than a desire. We get approached by shitbag SMs all the time and they are so obnoxious and rude that we are getting to the point of just couples and unicorns. SM are doing it to themselves.

In the swinger world, which this sub is in, most women are openly bisexual or bicurious.

All the couples we know just don’t like single guys. The husband are just fine with their wives fucking a guy, just SMs tend to be undesirable. So how can it be insecurity of other men if the swap with couples?

Some men absolutely. Some hotwives will partake in that lifestyle but are too jealous to share their man with another woman. With 6 billion people on the planet, you’ll get some of everything

My wife has been into girls since she was in HS, but never acted on it until we’ll after we were married.

I’m sorry to burst your bubble, but many lifestyle women got into it to experiment with women as they WANT to do that.

Your post wasn’t nuanced but rather a misguided opinion. My wife is sexually attracted to women, just like almost all of the lifestyle women we come across. We went out to a small get together and she chose to make out with the wives, not other guys.

In society, you may be right. In the Lifestyle, much more likely and I would say more than half

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I have never once encouraged my wife to eat pussy. She just enjoys it. But according to you, she is doing it to please me 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Of course it can be and it also goes the other way, like Hotwives that won’t share their husbands. I know a husband that isn’t ready to let his wife play with guys. But OP was making it seem that if you don’t want to play with SMs, it must be because of an insecurity, which is not true

“Most”, meaning 51% or more

Oh man, you’re a very jaded lady

And that may be so. We know several couples that swap, so the husband is very open to his wife fucking another guy, that won’t entertain SMs.

If the husband was insecure, why would he swap?

He said he was very experienced.

Seems to me he was looking for validation on why couples don’t enjoy single males all the time. It would be easy for him to think “that husband is just insecure, that’s why they didn’t pick me”.