When looking at profiles, outside of âCouples Onlyâ, I see way more couples interested in an extra female than an extra male. Any reason why, are men not secure about the relationship or canât handle the thought of the wife fucking another man. I know some guys have a phobia of even seeing another manâs cock, much less having one in there space. Just curious đ§
Most men arenât openly bisexual. Many women are. So it would reason that a lot of couples are searching for a female over a male. Finding a female is a lot harder. My wife and I can go to the local watering hole and pick up some guy. Donât need to search too hard for that.
As far as the thought that a man must be to insecure, take a look at all the cuckold stuff out there versus cuckquean. Cuckold, Hotwife, Stag/Vixen is all geared towards the wife fucking another guy. Not much of that in reverse. So much for your theory.
Iâm not sure this is really the place for you to come to and vent that you donât get enough play as a single guy. There probably is a support group for that.
It certainly comes off as whining. If a couple doesnât want a SM, it must be from some insecurity rather than a desire. We get approached by shitbag SMs all the time and they are so obnoxious and rude that we are getting to the point of just couples and unicorns. SM are doing it to themselves.
In the swinger world, which this sub is in, most women are openly bisexual or bicurious.
All the couples we know just donât like single guys. The husband are just fine with their wives fucking a guy, just SMs tend to be undesirable. So how can it be insecurity of other men if the swap with couples?
Some men absolutely. Some hotwives will partake in that lifestyle but are too jealous to share their man with another woman. With 6 billion people on the planet, youâll get some of everything
My wife has been into girls since she was in HS, but never acted on it until weâll after we were married.
Iâm sorry to burst your bubble, but many lifestyle women got into it to experiment with women as they WANT to do that.
Your post wasnât nuanced but rather a misguided opinion. My wife is sexually attracted to women, just like almost all of the lifestyle women we come across. We went out to a small get together and she chose to make out with the wives, not other guys.
In society, you may be right. In the Lifestyle, much more likely and I would say more than half
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I have never once encouraged my wife to eat pussy. She just enjoys it. But according to you, she is doing it to please me đđđđđ
Of course it can be and it also goes the other way, like Hotwives that wonât share their husbands. I know a husband that isnât ready to let his wife play with guys. But OP was making it seem that if you donât want to play with SMs, it must be because of an insecurity, which is not true
And that may be so. We know several couples that swap, so the husband is very open to his wife fucking another guy, that wonât entertain SMs.
If the husband was insecure, why would he swap?
He said he was very experienced.
Seems to me he was looking for validation on why couples donât enjoy single males all the time. It would be easy for him to think âthat husband is just insecure, thatâs why they didnât pick meâ.
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How about Hotwives or Stag/Vixen? They donât want to be humiliated but rather just enjoy watching their wives. His assumption is that if a couple doesnât want a SM to join it must because of insecurity