Find a 3rd for a Threesome

Hey everyone,

First off, this is not a solicitation to find someone here on Reddit, so please don’t interpret it as that. Second, we aren’t looking for a unicorn, but the opposite (a 2nd hetero guy) and are looks for advice.

My girlfriend and I have been talking about nonmonogamy and threesomes for a while, and are looking to move forward. We figure a good introduction to it would be to have a MFM threesome, as I’m more comfortable right now with the idea of her fucking someone else, and I genuinely think the idea of it is hot.

For those of you that have done this before, how do you go about it? She has tried using the apps (okcupid, etc) but most guys on there ignore her bio that says she is looking for someone to join to have a threesome. They all answer saying they’d rather it just be the two of them.

Our second idea is for her to find a guy at the gym, but another friend of mine who is in the lifestyle thinks that we will get similar results.

We’re trying to keep it outside of our friend group to avoid any awkwardness in the future.

Any suggestions are appreciated!