Me and my last girl were in the LS and idk that I could go back to pure monogamy.

She’s a little younger and less experienced sexually. But she has a lot of really great qualities. We had sex for the first time the other day and things are progressing. She told me she’s not interested in FWB’s with me and is only looking for long term. She also doesn’t do hookups or FWB’s in general. We don’t have a label, but I stopped talking to other women since I know where she’s at and I see a lot of potential.

I also am pretty sure she’s never been with another woman. She comes from a pretty religious (but healthy) family, and although she doesn’t believe the same as them, she has a lot of the same values, and my gut tells me maybe some shame around sexuality

I want to spark a conversation about LS and exploring her sexuality, and if she’s interested in women, but not sure how to go about it

This isn’t one of those “how do I get my gf to be a swinger posts” because she’s not my girlfriend. But I sort of see it headed that way, because she’s a total catch so far from what I’ve seen and she’s extremely into me. Pursuing me very heavily. I think she’d be startled to find out ive had group sex tbh.

Does anyone have any advice on how to approach this subject in a way that won’t scare her away and we can have a healthy discussion about it?

For the record, I’m not looking to jump into LS with her until we’ve been going steady as a couple for several months, or maybe even a year. I don’t want to rush into it until our connection has deepened. But I would like to lay it out on the table now so it’s something we can explore down the road once we’re established (if we even get to that point).

Any advice from people who have been in something similar would be appreciated

Thanks in advance