I am looking for any help you guys have to to offer to minimize meeting flakes.

I have been playing safely with people online off and on for years, but when I met my bf he said he would like me to fuck other men and meet with them to see me get fucked.

It became clear that I would need to set this meeting up. I did with a nice bbc. We got along. My bf got a hotel close to wear he was. My bf helped me pic out and outfit. We took pics and sent them to the bull. He was excited. I confirmed that we would meet with him at 5.

We heard nothing from them until 7, but no answer when they would come.

Long story (not short lol) my bf and I went to dinner, got drinks, he make me cum alot!!! At 8 he said he could meet us. I was still down but my bf was annoyed.

The night was supposed to be different and we got the hotel room in a less desirable part of town because it was closer to him.

Any advice on how to avoided situations like this please??? I was surprised. He seemed awesome 🤷‍♀️