Hello Reddit friends! This sub has been very helpful on our journey and wanted to share our first full swap experience with another bi couple (we are both bi) We've been actively seeking and meeting couples for about a month so we are pretty happy with the timeline to our first playdate!

Met a nearby couple through 3Fun, chatted on SDC, then moved on to Snapchat for a week or so of light chatting. Setup a plan for dinner at a nearby beach, then drinks at a hotel after to see where the night would go. We booked a nice hotel with a bar. Dinner went great and we all clicked right away, moved to the hotel bar and let the wifey decide when she was ready and willing to invite them up....two drinks and we decided to move to the room.

Sat around the room for a few minutes chatting, and the ladies started stripping to share tattoos and piercings 🤣. The ladies started making out on the bed and us fellas started playing with each other's cocks on the couch. We moved to the bed and shared oral back and forth while the ladies were deep into oral with each other. We quickly got to soft swap with each couple and then seemingly quicker to full swap fucking. Everything was on one king bed and the transition between positions was surprisingly natural and smooth. Twice we stopped for water, laughing, and small chat. The entire experience was insanely sexy. We had so many positions and changes that we couldn't recount them all after 🤣.

About 1am we finished up, all chatted and caught our breathe for a bit and the other couple dressed and left.

The experience solidified that we are in this! We had zero jealousy during or after the encounter. Both of us shared specifics about what we liked and didn't like and we are excited for the next experience.

Good luck to those seeking! Talk to your partner, talk some more, then keep talking until it's annoying! We would say the openness of talking about the lifestyle made us closer and even stronger in our relationship when we decided to start this. As many have said, we wouldn't suggest the LS as a way to fix anything but if you are already rock solid it's an incredible addition!