Hey, fellow swingers,

I had an unexpected experience recently, and I'm reaching out to this amazing community for some advice and insights. Last night, my partner and I were at Scarlet Ranch, and things were going incredibly well. We connected with an extremely attractive couple, and as we started playing together, I found myself unable to achieve an erection. This was quite surprising to me, as I've never had such an issue before.

Let me provide some context. I enjoy giving oral pleasure, and I must say, I gave it my all with this woman. Inspired by Kenneth Play's techniques, I focused on her pleasure, and she was moaning so loudly that everyone downstairs heard how much she loved it. The fact that she was enjoying it so much turned me on even more. However, despite being highly aroused mentally, I couldn't achieve an erection to save my life.

In the past, I've occasionally taken Viagra, but I decided not to this time due to the headaches I often experience the next morning. I did have a few drinks, which hasn't affected me before, but I do acknowledge that I was quite dehydrated. I'm just surprised that even a half-erection was out of reach. As an additional piece of information, I did have sex with my girlfriend this morning, and although I could achieve an erection without any issues, the sensitivity of the crown of my penis was noticeably diminished.

This whole experience has left me baffled and deeply disappointed in myself. Especially because the night before, I had an incredible encounter with the other woman, leaving her in a comatose state of full-body shaking convulsion orgasm.

I wanted to ask the community if any of you have faced similar challenges or if you have any advice on how to overcome this issue. Have any of you found effective alternatives to Viagra that don't cause headaches? How do you manage dehydration and its potential impact on sexual performance?

I appreciate any insights, personal experiences, or tips you can provide. This community has always been supportive, and I believe there's a wealth of knowledge and understanding here.

Thank you all in advance!