Im a womsn and my bf of 9 months is bi. Our relationship is basically monogamous other than me agreeing that if he ever feels the need to be with a man he will tell me. He has not wanted to do that yet but is sounding like he might want to soon. When I agreed, I wasn't head over heels I love like I am now. I want to ask if people have been in this situation, did it feel ok to watch? I am somewhat voyeuristic and would have toys... but thoughts that come up are... am I going to suddenly feel jealous? And will I feel it is unfair and should I ask to be able to be with a man later? I don't have sexual attraction to women. My guy wants to be with a stranger like a one and done thing, but I know a couple of men I could be with and don't really want to be with a stranger. These are not men who would keep trying to come back. But they are people I could contact again (i wouldn't without his knowledge), but he would possibly see that as unfair. Any insights are appreciated .