My husband will not show any interest in any women besides me. I haven’t expressed jealousy whatsoever but he has a fear it will develop if he does n he wants to avoid that bc he doesn’t want it to ruin our relationship which is awesome that he cares that much about our marriage! I appreciate his thoughtfulness and love for me n making sure I’m comfortable however it makes it hard to find couples to play with bc I never know if he is actually attracted to the woman or not. I don’t want him playing w a female he’s not attracted to bc I know I can’t touch someone I’m not attracted to.

He told me I’m the one calling the shots unless it’s a hard no on his end which he has definitely expressed his thoughts when it’s a hard no so at least he’s comfortable n willing to voice his thoughts then. I appreciate that about him!

I try to encourage him to be open. I ask him if he’s attracted to someone and I point out women that I find attractive. If I see a cute outfit or a nice butt, I’ll bring it to his attention. Most of the time he replies “yeah it’s nice” 😣

Any ideas to get him to open up a bit?