hi! I'm 150% new to this so please don't judge and sorry for any stupid questions/things I may say! I just got out of a relationshit which helped me figure out what I'm looking for right now. I was looking into this scene and had some questions/wanted some advice.

I'm very sexual with a high sex drive and a large pleasure chest. I don't want a relationship, but I also take my sexual health very seriously and don't want to just go around fucking random people. I want steady, clean sex with some physical touch thrown in without having to date them, being free to stay single. Ive obviously found it difficult to expect someone to not fuck other people while fucking me if I'm not willing to give them relationship benefits, even if I'm also not fucking or dating other people (bc if youre dating someone else, you're probably also fucking them - that's all it boils down to for me, just not wanting to fuck someone who's also sticking their dick in 5 other people that same week & not being smart about it. obviously there are safe sex practices and all that, I just mean on a one-on-one basis. I know in these scenarios I probably wouldn't be the only person they partake with, but I also know most people in these situations are also careful with their sexual health and boundaries/communication which is what I want). I'm only looking for safe, clean fun without obligations and clear expectations. FWBs can get really messy and I don't want all that right now. I have guys wanting to do the FWBs song and dance, but I know them and the way they've been asking makes it clear they're also looking for a gf of some sort. I want to be comfortable with the people involved. I want to feel like im in a safe space and I want to get fucked regularly without the relationship bullshit.

I crave the intimacy, feeling wanted, the lovely orgasms, human touch, etc and I love exploring and trying new things. Since I'm a single woman, what would be the best approach to this? I'd like to either join a couple (I am new when it comes to pleasing women, so I'd need some guidance and patience, I'd be very nervous my first time!) or go to a club of some sort as I think I would prefer MMF based on fantasies, but never had sex with a woman so I can't say I wouldn't be into it. I am attracted to women to an extent and would get turned on when making out with a few during my college years, but I can't say that was bc of them or me just being a hornball 🤷. However, I know real life isn't a fantasy and things can be very different in real life. Im open to trying things out with another woman, I'm heterosexual but all about pleasure, but my concern is I'll join in and then people will be upset if I say 'nah, not for me' afterwards. I just know I won't know if I like or dislike something unless I try it. That's how my views on almost every sex act goes - I'm willing to try almost anything as I love exploring my sexuality and have opened up to exploring even more lately.

I'm a very self aware person, I communicate really well and have had an open & honest policy with anyone I've been intimate with. I worry about diseases as I've never had any and don't want any, but I feel that would obviously be a discussion prior to meeting up (to talk about boundaries, preferences, hard no's, etc). I'm just not sure how to even start or where to look, I don't know how any of this really works. Am I in the wrong sub ? Please correct me if I've made any incorrect assumptions, if I'm asking something impossible or if I'm in the wrong place.

I apologize for the length and if i waste anyone's time if I'm in the wrong place. Just looking into it and hoping for some insight! Thanks in advance! 😊