At the club recently and experienced the male part of a couple who we consider somewhat new “LS Friends” tried to put his hand inside my pants… I declined, we kept dancing and it was fine.

We were dancing, there was a group of us, having a good time, we have played with this couple twice before, but didn’t want it to become a “thing”. They reached out to us prior to going out and we kindly said we didn’t know what we had planned yet, but also wanted to do our own thing…

We get to the club, meet another couple who we were very much about and then our “LS friends” show up. We were nice, said hi and continued hanging with the initial couple. Then we all end up on the dance floor, but there was no talk about us playing with them or not. My husband and I were somewhat avoidant but still nice. We are very friendly people and don’t want to make it weird for anyone.

Is it normal LS etiquete to assume that if you’ve played with a couple before you can/will again? Not sure how to proceed with this “LS friendship”…. It felt VERY predatory 😳