We’re going to be in Toronto later this summer and it looks like the one night we can make it to Oasis is fetish night. We have no interest in BDSM or anything like that and honestly it’ll probably just make us uncomfortable if we’re surrounded by people in leather getting whipped, spanked, etc. (not that there’s anything wrong with that!). Am I right that the themed activity is limited to one floor? Is it still worth going if you don’t go up there but are looking for voyeurism, exhibitionism and, who knows, maybe meeting someone?

We might potentially be able to go on a night where single guys are allowed but from what I’ve read that’s not the best idea - one post compared their reaction to couples having sex to that of seagulls in the McDonald’s parking lot. Are we off base and it wouldn’t be a bad experience?