Rant incoming. After 8 months in an open relationship I deleted my Feeld account today. Wife still has hers. My experience was absolutely terrible with this app and the people on it. My 2 biggest complaints:

1. For starters. The amount of men or women that would match with me and then proceed to tell me “we aren’t interested in you or the 4 of us together, but we think your wife is sooo hot. Could you give us her #/snapchat/create a group so we can talk to her?” This would happen at least once every week or two.

2. Constant body shaming. I’m in decent shape. I’m 6’ and 215 lbs. Well groomed, body hair trimmed or shaved. I work out often but I have a slight dad bod (I like beer and bbq). Was told on numerous occasions that my body was “disgusting” and that the other person/couple only played with very fit men and couples. Despite most of them looking exactly like us, and a few people arguably needed A LOT more work than me.

Honestly is it that hard to just ghost someone instead of shaming them for how they look just because they don’t match your standards? Talk about a confidence killer. Not sure if I’ll ever get back on and start fresh on this app. I’m pretty content to let my wife search for us both while I keep seeing an occasional FWB I’ve had for a while now.