Just a minor issue, but fantasy posting has been strong lately and I've removed several. I realize weird things happen in real life, but some of these would go into the swinging X files. Such as a new account posting about how he see's so much ass to mouth at swinging parties.
I think this is important as a LOT of new swingers come here and I'd rather they get an accurate picture of swinging. If you are going to your first party and you read about the constant ass to mouth, while you yourself just barely have the nerve to show up, its not going to help.
Which gets to another topic. I like pie! posting.
Whats an I like pie post? Its someone saying "I like pie who else likes pie" and 40 posts about how pie is great, one person saying they don't like pie and 3 people telling them how stupid they are for not liking pie!
In swinging this will be DP, DVP, bi males, seeing your wife have sex, seeing your husband have sex, snowballing after a bj, kissing after a bj, etc etc.
Swinger question "I really want to try DVP but my husband thinks thats too close to bi for him, is there anything I can do to reassure him?"
I like pie - Who likes DVP, we tried it and it was amazing!
We all do things in sex some will like and some will feel is gross, we don't need to validate that unless you have a real question. Please post those types of posts in the various subs directly talking about sex. We try to keep this as SFW as is possible for a swinging sub.
So a post about ATM is too much for you, but some asshole can post about how the swinger community bullied him into destroying his own marriageā¦and he wasnāt even a swinger.
I think you should have actually read his post.
You gave a troll (someone that is an asshole by definition) a platform to tell a bunch of swingers that theyāre horrible people. He didnāt share any insight as to what he did wrong, what he learned, or what he would have done differently.
He literally blamed swingers cuz his wife was a whore and all swingers are monsters.
This is supposed to be somewhere where we can talk, share, and learn and you let a fuck-tard with a HORRIBLE posting history remind all of us what trash we are.
You may have no āragetsā but you should.
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So Iām on a mission to help other men and women who are in the same boat and being pressured by their spouses and pressured by the LS community with bullshit like thisā¦
He felt pressured by swingers to do things he didn't want? The LS community specifically pressured him to not have rules and let his wife fuck whoever she wanted? And apparently he had no blame in his lack of communication or understanding of how ENM works.
And again, he wasn't even a swinger.
The whole post was just crazy judgmental, saying his wife was being "spread around" and she was going to "inevitably get an STI or BV". He even said he constantly slept with women he didn't want to. And that was somehow the LS's fault?
If you're too stupid to make your own decisions, you shouldn't be in any kind of ENM at all. But do you know what? Maybe you're right, and I read too much into what he said overall. Maybe his whole post really was a round-about lesson about how stupid people shouldn't swing or be in ENM, and I just didn't get that.