Stop touching other people in playrooms without their consent!!!!!

Met a great couple at a party last night, we found an empty playroom and started hooking up. After a few minutes, others started to come in the room, not a big deal there. But as the other husband and I were giving our partners oral, at least one woman started touching our legs and asses without asking. No amount of shifting around or being subtle got her to take the hint and it was an absolute buzzkill. And I know he and I should’ve explicitly told them to stop, but by that point the damage was done and the mood was killed. He and I talked about it afterwards and agreed that it would’ve been very difficult to recover if we had stopped and said no, the mood had been totally soured. It was that jarring.

I know this mostly happens to women, but the feeling of having my ass fondled out of nowhere was such a violating feeling, I can’t even really describe it. Don’t even have a question, just want to vent and also make it clear to anyone else that stuff like this is not ok in the least.