So long story short me and my wife have been together for almost 6 years. Since day one shes known that i get turned on by watching/having threesomes/watching her sext/etc. She never understood it. Shes realized that when she does talk to people or post pictures or anything of tbat sort that i apparently give more attention cause it turns me on. Even with her doing it tho, shes stuck in this cycle in her head that she cant understand the reason why i can share her if i can but to her she would never be able to share me. Which to make clear i dont want to her to share me i just want to share her. So shes just kinda doing it cause i like it. Which i dont want, i want her to naturely like the idea of it, which in her defense she likes the upvotes and likes and and stuff. So she likes the attention to a certain extent. I feel like she might think its a trap or something and no matter how i explain it she just dont understand. How can i explain why i like this? Like what about it do i like, why the thought of her with someone else in bed turns me on. Please halp!!! If i posted in the wrong sub i apologize just dont know where else to ask for advice on this.