idk if it's just my experience but it seems like the only time couples are open to inviting a third is either a girl or a cuck situation. why is the entire community (or at least California) so biphobic? men are seen as just gay or just straight if they want to join, women are fetishized.

it seems like every degree of interaction is left ONLY for women to join an existing couple unless it's to fuck the girl or if it's already a mm looking for m

this is somewhere between a rant and an open letter. as a guy, i just want to know if i should just give up now and take any future experiences as a surprise, or if it's just a huge influx of "open relationships" where they just want more pussy (pardon my vulgarity)