So I have read a lot of posts and really learned a lot from others. I'm sure there is a post somewhere that asks a similar question so please don't shoot me.

My wife and I have been in the LS for about six months or so and have been actively looking for partners whether couples or singles. As of now, we have played with two other couples and have had a great time. I'm just wondering if others get a LOT of messages from throw away accounts looking for a quick meet up or not willing to do a vibe check? Granted I will be the first to admit our schedules are hard to sync.

In this LS is it too much to ask to have a common ground or interests before jumping in the sack? Or should we lower the bar and just concentrate on the fun we have with inviting others into our bed.