My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for a few months. We’ve gone to clubs, takeovers, small house parties and found a few couples we click with and have fun with. It’s been a great experience so far for both of us.

I’m just curious if anyone has had this experience? Because I’m starting to feel like it’s just me.

One of the couples we play with, I find the husband very attractive- but flash forward to anything sexual- he looks completely different. Not that cute. It’s like a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde effect it’s so bizarre to me. He just looks drastically different. Once we’re all clothed, he’s attractive again. So far this is the only couple we have swapped with. Is it always going to be this way? Or is it just this couple? I know there’s only one way to find out- but just curious if anyone else has experienced this.