M/F, both 48. We haven’t done much other than a meet and greet and grabbing drinks with some LS couples. The wife decided she wasn’t comfortable exploring the LS locally. We’re headed to SD the week of July 4th. We’re talking about trying some baby steps while traveling.

1. Wife is down for going nude at Black’s Beach, which we realize is nudist and not lifestyle. Still, it’s a baby step.
2. We’re discussing visiting a club or two. Our preference is voyeurism and maybe exhibitionism our first visit. Discussing our experience and maybe returning to a club for same room parallel with touching and/or girl-on-girl.

• It sounds like Thad’s is a bit rundown and heavy on single guys. • We’re not interested in BDSM, so House of Black seems like a bad fit. • Saw a little about Club Safe Word, but are not sure about the atmosphere for newbies or if it may be booked for a private party when we’re available.

Curious what folks may suggest. Open to other options as well.