Hey life stylers,

Was hoping to pick y'alls brains on this.

We're (I-30M wife, 28F) fairly experienced swingers with a fee interactions dating to pre covid. We've recently met another couple that are brand new to the lifestyle. We have that great 4 way chemistry that everyone seeks and it has been amazing! We've had a few dates that we stuck to just soft swap and tons of group play.

We recently had another date and they were on board to full swap. During the swap, their wife was overly focused on her husband with my wife. Not gonna lie, it took away from me a bit and it make it a bit of an awkward swap. I was trying to be patient and courteous as I believe she's only been with her husband in any sexyal capacity.

We wsnt to keep meeting with this couple, and I'm looking how to approach with this other couple. Beyond the obvious "JuSt ComMuNiCaTe", we would like to do that but wondering how would be best.