First off, let me say that I don't want for this to come across as a fat-shaming article. Post-baby, I found it challenging to get back into shape.
My partner and I have seen numerous profiles and couples in real life where the woman is far more physically fit than the man. Everyone has their own tastes, and I respect that. However, it is physically challenging to engage in sexual activity with a heavy man. Photos of these couples typically include the attractive girlfriend and some outdated photos of the boyfriend. Women, even the fat ones, make an attempt to seem attractive, but most males wear the same old shorts and t-shirt they bought five years ago. I wish more of the males in the lifestyle took pride in their appearance. You can see that a lot of guys would be great catches if only they worked out, got nicer clothes, and took better care of themselves.
I love these threads! They always devolve into a bunch of people telling other people that their partner isn't good enough (and that makes them mad because they want to play with the one they think is). So inspiring!
Honesty, that’s people in general. Attractive people are rarer than one might think
It's tough for us too, and we'vecertainly noticed it just the same as you, that it tends to be the men who let themselves go more often. We both spend a lot of time in thr gym and eat healthy. Our female half is definitely thick, but a healthy- fit type of thick. Side note, we've noticed thick being used to mean a lot of different things lately. Anyhow, it's definitely hard for us to not only find people attractive when they're more overweight, but we just can't relate to people as well when they're not as health conscious and/or fitness minded as us.
Hard to find a match sometimes for sure.
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Hahaha how dare a husband have confidence when he doesn't live up to your standards? Or expect anything when you want to fuck his wife? You're trolling, right?