Hi, Myself and my gf are about to experience our first full swap with another couple; they are married, and have plenty of experience, unlike us as this will be our first time.

We have enjoyed several FFM plays with a unicorn we found, and a MFM. Enjoyed all (although the MFM guy was a little more Dom with my gf than expected 🤣).

My gf has only experienced one other woman before (our unicorn playmate), who is great at gently taking the lead. Whilst we are really looking forward to the weekend, we are both a bit apprehensive about making a first move / initiating play. The other couple may well of course, but a while ago we entertained a couple for drinks, and after they left (and we felt a bit sad that no play happened), they messaged saying they really enjoyed the evening, but didn't initiate anything themselves as they were waiting for overt signals from us (they didn't want to make us nervous apparently). 🤦‍♂️🤣

So, assuming the other couple don't outright ask or physically reach out, what advice would you give us? My gf won't ask - she's a little shy, until someone else starts something and then she's like a wildcat 🤣.

I guess it's all pretty obvious stuff, but any advice / personal experience / do's and don'ts would be very welcome! Thanks!