We are newbies [35M/36F]...we have talked about LS activities and fantasies for more than a year, but in the last month we have had our first 2 experiences, fortunately both successful and fantastic times! (We've also been to one club, but it was a dead night and we were just browsing)

Our first experience was soft MFM with a trustworthy friend who's got some experience. It was spontaneous and fun for all...but this post is about last night.

We went to a wedding and had a nice hotel downtown. We planned to make an early exit from the reception to see what naughty adventures we could find. While she was getting ready for the evening, I posted a sexy description in a local reddit sub...we had no expectations other than a flood of "heys", unsolicited dick pics, and 22M hung alpha bulls...we got all of that. But we also did have a few real couples that reached out, actively chatted, and swapped pics in DM.

This was fun and exciting, and we were sneaking peaks at my phone during the wedding reception. We still maintained low expectations but we were enjoying the thrill. We made our Irish exit and headed back to the room...we planned to go to some local bars but it was pouring rain, so we ended up in the hotel's rooftop lounge. It was about 1030 pm at this point and we were still messaging with one couple who seemed like they were willing to meet. We switched to text, and they told us it would be about 1230 before they could make it to our hotel. We agreed!

Meanwhile, we ordered drinks and made chit chat with folks at the bar...there was an attractive woman, slightly older than us, sitting at the end of the bar having desert by herself. There was only one empty chair between her and my wife, and I mentioned to wife that she should say hi. Instead she went to the bathroom, but having wife's permission, I said hello to the solo lady. Wife joined the conversation upon her return.

We quickly learned that her boyfriend was the bartender who made our cocktails. The four of us hit it off and shared natural conversation, laughter, and casual flirtiness. We ended up staying until they closed the bar at midnight and turned the lights on...the bartender (49, muscular and attractive) and his girlfriend (39, thick but fit, very sexy, black miniskirt and sleeveless tank) invited us to join them for a nightcap.

The rain had quit, so we popped over to a local bar a few blocks away. On the walk, I reminded my wife that this other couple was on their way to our hotel and would be there in 20-30 minutes.

Our new friends ordered tequila shots. I paid, slipped my wife a water and held on to her shot. We hung for a bit, had one more, and proceeded to leave about 12:35. Since their car was at our hotel, they walked back with us. I texted the other couple, who had just arrived in the lobby, that we were en route but had company.

On the short walk back, we exchanged numbers with our new friends and discussed meeting for dinner sometime. Somehow that quickly turned into the two women agreeing that we should all go to our room.

Walking to the elevator, I make eye contact with the other couple. They were sitting in chairs, I smiled and gave them a reassuring nod. When we got to the room, I told bartender about the couple in the lobby and why they were there...we laughed and he said to invite them up. I sent guy#2 a text, and he responded that they felt awkward (understanably), and decided to leave. I felt really bad about flaking on them, but couldn't believe our luck to have met the amazing people we were with (also, they were a huge upgrade on our attraction scale). But I really did feel sorry for letting others down...it was a strange emotional struggle while also being incredibly exciting.

In our hotel room, wife took off her dress to reveal her naked body. She was kissing girlfriend and they laid down on the sofa. Bartender and i grabbed a beer, I took of my suit and threw on some shorts, and we enjoyed the show while we casually discussed boundaries. None of us had experienced anything like this, and it was so heat-of-the- moment but everyone was going with the flow and enjoying themselves.

Girlfriend was now in panties only. She and wife were fingering each other while we all admired girlfriend's new boob job. Wife asks her if she can lick her pussy while removing panties. Bartender proceeds to remove his pants and puts his cock in girlfriend's mouth while my wife went down on her. I moved behind my wife and put my hand on her ass while caressing girlfriend's foot and leg with the other.

I crouched down and began licking my wife's pussy. She moved up to kiss girlfirend and started to stroke bartender's cock. I looked at him and asked girlfriend if I could go down on her. They both assured me and I went after it. The feelings and arousal are impossible to describe. Her pussy was amazing. She put her hands on the back of my head while I grabbed her breasts.

Wife had moved over beside girlfriends head and was playing with bartender. She sucked him while he fingered her and licked her pussy a few times. They moved over to the bed, with a brief pause for girlfriend to speak up let everyone know she was not comfortable with him fucking my wife. We were all cool with that, and I took that as my signal that we were not going to have sex. I was just fine with what was going down!!

Girlfriend and wife took a bathroom trip together while bartender and I took a break. Wife told me in the morning that they discussed this being their first time with a woman and that they loved it. She said they made out and went down on each other in the bathroom...that was insanely hot to hear.

We played separately for a bit longer. I kissed her and fingered her, making her moan loudly. This got my wife's attention who gave me an "atta boy" smile. She stroked my cock a bit, but after a day of drinking and the rush of excitement, I was having trouble keeping it hard...only a slight disappointment on my part, but I kept the focus on her pleasure.

I don't recall how it all concluded, but it was late and everyone just wound down and began to gather themselves. They got dressed, said our goodbyes and they left.

Wife put on some lingerie and got out our bag of toys. Back with just my wife, and recounting what had just happened, my arousal issues had cured themselves lol. We fucked all night. Slept a few hours and fucked again in the morning.

We feel incredibly fortunate and lucky to have experienced this together. It was smooth and drama free. We learned some things, grew in our relationship, and made amazing memories. I texted bartender and girlfriend texted wife today. We all agreed that it was fun, and we hope to get together again sometime.

Over brunch and on the ride home, wife and I played it back in our heads and discussed how wild last night was. We are happy to have our dirty little secrets, but it's so hard not being able to share the story with our closest vanilla friends. Usually when something in your life is so impactful and positive, you want to share with others. So I've decided to share here. Hoping some of you enjoy reading and find your own amazing experiences in this beautiful life. Cheers!

(And to the third couple who got the band end of this deal, we sincerely feel bad about what happened. I hope that experience does not dicourage you from putting yourselves out there and we wish you the best. You all seemed great and deserve to find good times.of your own)

TLDR: wife and I had first soft swap with other newbies we met at hotel bar. We were planning to meet another couple we had chatted with on reddit earlier that day. They got to our hotel as we were going up with other couple. We invited them to party, but they decided to leave. A bit awkward and unfortunate, but we had an absolute blast!