Background: I’m 30F I have an older friend that I really vibe with and he’s married with kids. He and his wife are about 10 years older and have courted me as a potential babysitter. I haven’t met his wife, but I’ve seen pictures and from what my friend tells me about her, I get the sense that we’d really vibe too. I think she’s attractive, I feel like there’s chemistry with my friend, and I want to ask if they be down to experiment as a thrupple. Not really interested in fooling around with my friend outside his marriage, so is there a way I can probe to see if they’re interested in a unicorn? Like is there an innocuous way to inquire without putting him off or making this awkward: like a secret code word? I really don’t want him to know I’m attracte