So me (27m) and my wife (26f) have been together for almost 5 years now. We are both interested in the lifestyle and have done a soft swap with another couple that we are good friends with. We are planning to do a full swap the next time we all hangout. We have also don’t mfm and ffm threesomes that didn’t go to well (because of the people that we did it with and communication) but we found them hot and everything.

My thing is my wife is having a friend come down to visit for a day and they are going to get dinner. He’s super cool and polite and is in the lifestyle to an extent as well. She wants to possibly fuck him afterwards, we have boundaries made when it comes to everything. I’m just having jealousy issues on what if he’s better or she prefers him more, what am I gonna do while she’s gone, etc. We’ve talked about it and she’s reassured me that none of that will happen. I just don’t know how to get past that jealousy.