This is probably way to much TMI but I am fairly certain that there are women in this group to fit my demographic of being in the middle of peri-menopause.

How do you manage your sporadic cycles and breakthrough bleeding episodes in this lifestyle? I met a fantastic third last month and when we played somehow blood was activated, much to my horror. I was not bleeding or on my cycle prior to the moment we engaged in play: It was very sporadic, likely he tapped into something that activated the blood flow He was so gracious and kind about it. He did a great job and made me feel very at ease. In fact, he kept repeating that he didn’t mind, and that I should relax. He actually fetched warm washcloths and literally helped clean up the crime scene, but as you can imagine, I was absolutely embarrassed. Well, fast forward to today. We have another date planned tonight and as luck would have it, I woke up this morning and I’m bleeding!!!! I don’t want to cancel, but I think I need to. I’m concerned he’s going to think I’m a total flake. Ugh!!!! I’m interested in hearing from women who are in a similar boat and face familiar biological / logistical challenges. It is very difficult to monitor and/or anticipate the situation when you are going through menopause. It is extremely frustrating. Advice?