So there is a local club in my area that I attend as a single male and there is a girl that is actually part of a couple that goes there regularly. I had the chance to befriend her, got her number/IG, played with her twice now and we have similar interests outside of the lifestyle. We still talk a bit when I see her at the club but lately every time I try to reach out to them outside of the club I get no response via text and she always chooses to play with other single guys besides me.

I feel that I may have become a bother for her and her bf, but the time I played with her was when her bf was out of town and she was at the club alone and everything was great. And now every time I see them I just sit and wait to see if she chooses to play with me instead of mingling with the other club guests. I truthfully don't want to be a nuisance to their time at the club or just in general but I think I may have accidentally become too attached or I've overstayed my welcome. Anyone have any advice on how to maneuver through this? Also, has anyone ever been in this sort of situation before?