Before I met my wife I was a prolific man-hoe. I couldn’t connect emotionally so I slept with a lot of woman. I loved the sex but struggled to feel anything. If I was attracted to someone I would just respectfully ask them if they would like to have sex with me. Even if I had only just met them. Due to my lack of emotion I didn’t fear rejection. But was surprised at the amount of woman that said yes.

That all came to an end the first time I seen my wife. I fell in love with her straight away. Unfortunately she was with 2 girls I had already slept with. I approached her. Sparked conversation. She was so amazing I just couldn’t bring myself to hit on her. We talked & laughed. I told her it had been a pleasure and I left her to enjoy her night.

A week later I’m at a party and she walks in. She see’s me and we chat and laugh and I’m in awe of her. She’s leaves me to go mingle then comes back later and ask’s if I would like to hook up with one of her friends. I declined. Then told her that I thought she was beautiful and I wanted to spend time with her. She immediately let me know that she knew my reputation and wasn’t interested in being another victim. I pleaded my case but she wasn’t having it. I was gutted. Later she was leaving the party by herself and was walking home. I offered to walk her. She declined. I told her I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if anything happened to her and I wanted to see her get home safely. So she said OK.

We talked and laughed. Got to her place. She invited me in. She took all her clothes off. Started kissing me. Took me to her bed and wanted to get fucked. But for the first time ever I couldn’t. She was drunk and I was afraid that if I did I’d lose her. So I just held her and she fell asleep in my arms.

We’ve been together 17 years now. She’s the love of my life. We’ve been apart of the LS for 4 years but only with Couples and Single Males. But what really turns her on is when I tell her about the sexual encounters I had before her. She loves hearing about all the woman that gave it up to her husband. Especially the ones that said yes after I had only just met them.

She suggested that we find us a unicorn in the wild. Someone we can randomly meet out in the wild at a bar and see if I can hit on them and get them to come home with us. The thought turns her on. So after such a long winded story here are the questions:

How do you know a single female is a possible unicorn? Are there any give aways?

Are single woman out at bars even interested in having sex with an attractive couple?

Are there things to be mindful of when approaching or even talking to a potential unicorn?

We aren’t to caught up on whether we find one or not. It’s the hunt that turns her on especially if it is fruitful. But we want to be respectful as possible when approaching other woman. I’ve got a lot of experience approaching woman as a single male but would like some advice about approaching woman as a couple.