The thing is: my wife is straight, not bi-anything. One of the things that appealed to her about this LS was the potential confidence boost it could provide. We only wanted to match with couples and are not interested in singles.
The problem that we are constantly facing is that when we do match with couples, despite making efforts to be upfront about her not being bi, they are disappointed and usually move on. It's like the men of these couples show 0 to minimal desire to actually want to fuck her. The women flirt with her, she's polite, but not turned on by it. She wants the husbands who flirt. She wants dick. She thought guys would think she was sexy and pretty. But it's rare.
As a husband, this is crazy to me. I try to bring that big dick energy to the other wife, This is about sex. But my wife isn't getting this in return and is ready to give up. Makes me sad because she's worth it.
Shes feeling so discouraged. Guess I'm just venting and looking for others with similar experiences. Are there any couples that play straight, where the man actually shows a strong interest in fucking the other woman?
I am the husband of a bi wife. When playing with another couple, she is looking also for a woman to play with. If your wife is straight, we would probably move on. Not that you guys aren’t hot, you just don’t fit our play dynamic.
So I could think your wife is a total smoke show, but if it’s not gonna work, I’m not going to flirt heavily with her. If I did, I would just be leading her on and also stopping her from engaging with a couple that has a similar play dynamic as you.
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