Posting an update post few weeks of our first encounter as a couple: https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/comments/12ms854/ok_so_it_finally_happened/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Had a holiday planned much before this experience and ngl I thought maybe there would be small issues during the holiday post the experience

I’d be lying if I said there were 0 issues. Just the once when we had a minor squabble she threw the experience in the mix to guilt trip me and I simply hugged her told her no one can ever replace her (which is true) and that she truly is the best thing to ever happen to me (also 100% true). She said sorry for bringing that up since it was so fresh (this squabble was 2 days after the experience and about food haha)

Anyway, we had our week long holiday and it was probably one of the best holidays we’ve had together. Never felt more in love and an overall great time. The sex was also fucking awesome. Usually I’m the horny-er one but there were times she was horny and made me fuck her silly despite me not being in the mood at the time (good on her since the sex was great)

What that experience has done for our relationship that I can see is that we are waaaay more frank and honest with each other and are much much more in love and our marital bond much much stronger. We both always knew but got further cemented that we only want to be with each other no matter the upcoming adventure in the LS.

She still isn’t convinced to swing full swap yet but more open than before while still telling me to explore with other women and not stop my kinky side (which I appreciate but I so so want her to also enjoy when she’s ready)

I would honestly recommend the LS for couples that are very secure with a strong bond as it has done wonders for us so far. It’s not for everyone but if it is indeed for you, don’t think twice :)