YES!!!!!!!! 100%!!!

lmfao I just had to check the account on this to see if it was my wife :D

In the same boat here with my wife, she's annoyed when people want her to join a group chat. She just has zero interest in the chatting aspects, doesn't care to be involved in the filtering and vetting. She wants to know the bullet points of the important details, wants to see verification photo(s) and that's it.

I've come to understand that for couples that are really pushing for the group chat thing it's likely just not going to work - if it's really a good match otherwise I'll prod her to get involved.

It all comes down to prior experiences - she used to be super into it, before she realized that 95% of the time it's a waste of her time or it just gets her hopes up for another failed connection. She doesn't handle the lack of success in matching/meeting as well as I do :D

At the end of the day I don't have any issues with this approach, we operate in a similar manner where if another couple balks at doing a verification photo/live photo on snap/kik/etc, we just move on. We realize that it's not always a case of cheater or fake or collector, some couples just don't see it as something they're concerned about or don't want to take the time or whatever other reason... likely to not be a good fit for other reasons is the way I see it.

Our page is chocked full of pictures. And I'm more than happy to provide regular photos of us together. Typically guys who are on the up and up have no issue doing the same. It's as easy as hey, here's a picture of us.