This is a little long but here goes. We are newish. A few experiences. First couple of times were great. We met a couple about five months ago maybe a little longer. They were completely new to the lifestyle had been married 20 years. I guess like us decided to try for a little excitement. We talked to them a few before we met the first time to make sure they were actually comfortable with it. The both were very adamant that they were. The night off we go out to a bar and grill have a good time and go back to the room. Everything is going smooth we are on separate beds. I'm with his wife he's with mine. When I'm doing it I'm concentrating on the one I'm with and not paying attention to them. Everything is going awesome on my side. Suddenly he sets up and says he cant do it. Well damn. But I completely understand. We all stop. He's completely embarrassed and obviously you can tell it bothered him. We tried talking for a minute but the ended up leaving pretty quickly. The next day he messaged and apologized, stating it wasn't our fault he just couldn't do it and said he didn't think the LS was for them. Like I said we completely understood no hard feelings from us. Well a few weeks ago he contacts us and wants to try again. We talk for a bit with both of them. They seemed to have worked out their issues or so that's what we thought. I somewhat reluctantly agreed after talking to them for a few weeks. We meet up again last night and go out have a great time. We end up in the room again, this time taking things slower. Even played a game to loosen everyone up. Well things get started and from what I could initially tell things were going good on the other side of the room and we are doing our thing. This is where I'm not sure if I did something wrong or what the deal is, like I said we are still kind of new as well. They finish after a little bit and we are still doing our thing on our side. They lay over there for a minute while we are finishing. He gets up and goes to bathroom and apparently jumps in shower. We finish while he is in the shower. I'm thinking him getting a shower is kind of odd because we were supposed to all be staying a making a night of it but to each their own. He come s out of the shower and I go in to the bathroom. When I come out he's outside of the room. His wife goes to the bathroom and my wife tells me he's upset and it bothered him to here us. And he wasn't happy that me and his wife didn't stop when they did. How was I supposed to know. I thought we were all there for the same goal. Apparently he laid over there upset and him nor my wife said anything or asked us to stop. My wife goes to the bathroom I walk outside so him and his wife can talk. I go back in after 15 minutes. His wife is crying and he's blood red. He looks at me and tells me I what I done was shitty and disrespectful. States that he and his wife talked about certain signs to give each other if they were uncomfortable and he was mad they were ignored. I was unaware of any of this. I thought my wife and him had finished and they were just giving us our time because nothing was said and I noticed nothing that could even be perceived as a sign. His wife sure wasn't stopping me. She was wanting more. They grabbed their stuff and left and I was just sitting there kind of dumbfounded. Confused on how this was my fault. What did I miss? Sorry post was so long, just wanted to try to paint full picture in case I missed something.