So me 34m and the wife 33f, talked about getting in the LS community and both agreed it is something we’re both interested in. Great alright let’s make a post I say, and so we did. We get a bunch of messages. Now I know attraction is a must, and texting and meeting up is where the vibe check comes in. Everyone one that I show her is a pass, she isn’t “attracted” to anyone it seems. Ok I understand that, let’s move on. After a bit I tell her you make a post, she did and found a couple. She didn’t find the guy attractive but still talked to them. And after a while we talked to them and vibed with them, she started liking the guy more. Cool I think. Well the couple ghosted us and we moved on. We made another post. And it’s the same thing, she’s not attracted to anyone. Now I’m thinking maybe she likes the fantasy of it more than the actual act. If so I rather her tell me because now I feel like I’m wasting my time on this. I don’t want her “to take one for the team” because this isn’t what it’s about. What are your thoughts on this?