We’ve always been close to each other when playing with others, the same bed or room where we can watch everything, touch each other, side by side etc.
We’ve been chatting to a couple we are both so excited to meet after weeks of hot online talk. We’re late 20’s they’re early-mid 30’s.
Her husband is hung, we’ve video chatted and confirmed size and he’s 9” and thick. Just the idea of feeling that gets me wet. We arranged to meet in 3 days on the weekend at our unit and the wife who my husband is really turned on by has messaged me to ask if we can play in separate areas because she’s nervous around new people at first.
We’ve never swapped with another couple and not seen everything so I’m a bit apprehensive about it. We play with people who we know or have met before solo but not new couples.
My partner thinks I’m being silly and wants to go ahead regardless he’s so excited about it after weeks of build up with them that I understand that he wants to but I love watching him and having him see me.
Chances are we will hopefully meet more than once so should I just respect her wishes for the first time?
Well, don’t do something that you don’t want to do. Can you make a compromise and do it in different areas of the same room?
No, you need to respect your own comfort level. You may regret it if you go through with it.
I’ve been there, doing something I wasn’t comfortable with. I didn’t want to make it awkward when saying no. I won’t make that mistake again.
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Just make sure you’re comfortable and don’t do anything that you don’t want just because everyone else does