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We’ve had a few experiences as of late where play partners have opted to keep the lighting very low / off when it comes time to have fun. My wife and I both LOVE watching each other .. and have found this to make the whole experience less fun (tougher to make eye contact etc). We’re now at the point where we’ve agreed we’ll (at the risk of making it awkward) flip on some lighting when we get into a situation like this again. What’s everyone’s take on it?
Depends on the mood we are going for. We prefer lights on generally. We love to see what’s going on as well take pictures/videos if everyone is comfortable. If we are having swingers over that are also into EDM we may have some coloured lights going and other lights off.
I’m all about a lamp or just mood lighting in general. But if a couple felt it was still too dark and just flipped on the lights it would be such a mood killer.
I recommend talking before play begins.
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I love this idea. We just found pitch black is NOT our preferred scenario so always looking for alternatives