Me (28M) and my girlfriend (38F) went to our first swinger party last night with a couple we met one time prior, and didn't do anything sexual with. We have no engaged in any swinger stuff before this. The party was alot of fun. Every one was nice fun and accepting to us being newbies. After hanging out with them for a few hours. We moved to the living room. Where sexual tension was increasing. Eventually I got legitimately sick, but thought it was just the booze I had consumed. As everyone was talking about sex and stuff my girlfriend pulled me to another room and said that she didn't think I was not comfortable anymore and that her own self wasn't really comfortable. We had made a agreement before hand that if either of us feels like we wanna tap out we both tap out. Even though I was uncomfortable I was willing to stick it out and try it, to see what the full experience was like. The only other girl I was attracted to was this one girl who was paying absolutely no mind to me. The host's wife was into me the first time we met, but she was getting help and felt up by every other guy. my girlfriend said she wasn't really attracted to any guy and felt like she was gonna be passed around and didn't like the idea of being basically no respected as human. Now I woke up this morning, regretting not staying and feeling as though I didn't give the lifestyle a fair shot. Any advice on if we should continue to explore the lifestyle? or if this is normal for being who are new?