So, my wife and I had the talk, and we are both onboard with giving swinging a try. We are going to a club next week and we are excited. I thought it would be a good idea to make a profile on one of the many sites out there to start talking to others about the lifestyle and potentially get ourselves a date in the future. I quickly realized that both my wife and I have no clue what to say, or what to ask. I feel like we should have waited before creating the profile. We began conversing with another couple and now I feel like we may be wasting their time since we aren't technically in the lifestyle yet.

So...

1. Am I a dumbass for creating the profile?
2. If not, any tips on getting a conversation going? Never flirted with a couple before.