My wife and I have had two amazing MFM experiences this year. Our first two. Both times I took the lead in finding the guys and setting up the meet up. The wife had a great time both times. Up to six orgasms in both sessions for her(so hot) and she loves the attentions.

Yet, after both sessions about two-three weeks after, she loses interest. First week after, we talk about it a lot. Very hot conversation and sex while reminiscing. Second week she says it was “ok” and third week she isn’t interested in doing it again.

It’s almost like she forgets how much fun she had. So, I have to start from scratch and build up the excitement again. After our second experience, we immediately scheduled a second session with the same guy for 6 weeks later. She was excited…He unfortunately had to cancel and now she’s like “nah, I’m good”.

Question(s) 1. Is this a normal sequence of moods? 2. A friend said I should just set up dates and be a bit more forward instead of slow playing 3. What emotions could she be dealing with that she may not be communicating? Indifference, shame, embarrassment?

All thought welcomed. I’d love to continue doing it and feel she does to….just, seems like she has anxiety over finding someone or having some post session “shame”.