Background: We are a younger couple (28F, 26 M) our main mode is looking for a male third for MFM Threesomes.

We have gone to what was labeled a swinger club, since we weren’t looking for swaps our goal was to just enjoy the vibe of the environment and have sex between ourselves after being turned on. We were approached a few times, not by anyone we’d really want to be with and while most people were nice we were somewhat made aware we weren’t there for the right reason apparently. So I guess what we’re asking is are there sex clubs where we can just enjoy whatever mode of sex we’d like and go with the flow? The crowd at said swinger club seems to really be set on taking us away from eachother and that’s not the sex we enjoy. We would like to participate with eachother along with other individuals.