Last weekend we went out to a bar and got drunk and then we went to the motel and had sex. When we got home I asked her again (her being drunk) about having a threesome with another man. She said no "because she's afraid I'll leave her later, afraid I'll stop loving her, afraid I won't want anything to do with her anymore". Does she have desire of this kink but she's afraid?

And I also asked if she had the courage to see me having sex with someone else, she didn't like it, she said no. She asked me if I've had a threesome I said no, but I've done it with an ex of mine and a trans woman, but I didn't have the courage to tell her that!

It was just that, what do you think? Do you think she's even curious but afraid?