So in a couple weeks we are attending our first party/ lifestyle event. We've been poly for a couple years now and have had our share of 3somes and such, both mmf and ffm. Which is good for us considering we are both pretty straight. If im honest I've probably got more flexibility there than her lmao. But that's just to say that we aren't completely new but at the same time we are new to being in the open with others who like the same stuff. Now, I'm nervous but I'm alot more comfortable seeing sex, watching, or just being around it in general. I find that I've got some exhibitionist and probably voyeur in me haha. But the wife is a little more restrained because of her (not really prude but sex shaming happened) upbringing and is probably a bit more nervous than me. Ultimately I guess I'd like any and all pointers, tips or advice. I've read a lot but of course you guys can ask for more details if you've got some applicable advice for us. T.I.A.